Who We Are / The Breaking Point
Original Air Date: Nov 17, 2011
Karen Belgrad – Senior Editor
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I went into tonight’s “Two Hour Event: The Intervention” wondering if it would be groundbreaking television or if it would be a Lifetime Movie. Luckily, I like both. Because, let’s be honest. We got a bit of both tonight.
There’s a lot of ground to cover, so why don’t we tackle on hour at a time. And, of course, if I miss anything you feel was huge or you disagree with me, be sure to take to the comments and let me know!
Who We Are
Amelia bounces into the practice, cheerfully prattling on to all of the stunned doctors. When she announces that she and Ryan are engaged, Addison promptly slaps her across the face. It seems our little pill-popper has been gone for twelve days, with nary a phone call, text, or email. The doctors had called the police, morgue, hospitals fearing the worst. Amelia admits to a slip/bender, but insists, thanks to Ryan, she’s clean now. After she leaves, Jake and Charlotte immediately call bull and a search of her office confirms that Amelia’s hiding Oxycodone pills all over the place.
When Amelia comes in the next day, Addison intercepts her. She’s introduced to Lennie and immediately recognizes it’s an intervention. She begins to lash out, attacking Addison first, mentioning her relationships with Mark and Derek, her abortion, and bitterly says that not even Rosemary’s Baby would want to live in Addison’s barren uterus; then she storms off. The group feels as if the intervention may be a mistake, but Lennie points out that Amelia is clearly high, but she’s going to go into withdrawal soon (shaking and sweating) and they have to keep trying. Jake, clearly drawing on personal experience, wants to keep going. When a sweaty Amelia rejoins them, she attacks Violet for aging and having a husband who hates her. Then she goes after Pete, saying that his life wasn’t even worth saving. She thinks he should kill himself so Violet can “rape” another patient history for a book and pointedly mocks Charlotte’s assault. Pete and Violet go to the kitchen where they laugh riotously over the allegations for a few moments until they silently seem to realize that maybe it wasn’t so funny… or wrong.
Lennie chuckles that Amelia seems to be winning better than Charlie Sheen, except for the Oxycodone. The doctors offer Amelia water, but she’s quick to note it has Buprenorphine in it, which will block the effects of her drugs. Addison tells her she loves her, but will not love her to death. She tells her she has to leave her house and threatens to call her siblings, mother, and the medical board. Amelia offers to stay for the intervention, but only if they give her some Oxy. The doctors debate the offer, with Jake pro and Sam con. Jake views it as disease, but Sam is harsher saying she controls her own fate. Jake leaves, since he barely knows Amelia, and visits the grave of Lily Ann Riley (1973-2003), who I believe must be his wife (or sister?) who died of drugs. Apparently Jake is helping to raise her college age daughter as well (back story alert!). He tells her he misses her and brought her favorite detox food, crullers.
When Coop tries to talk to Amelia, she begins to rant/cheer uncontrollably (What do we want? Drugs! When do we want them? Now!). Addison can’t take it anymore and brings Amelia a pill. Lennie challenges Amelia to do the drugs in front of her friends, so she smashes it with a stapler and snorts it on the reception desk. Addison cries that she doesn’t even see Amelia, who she feels is her sister. Sam thinks she should just grow up. Charlotte invokes her personal story and tells Amelia that she’ll never come back from it if she kills someone high. Although stoned, Amelia starts to seem receptive, but then Ryan arrives.
Addison is horrified to see Ryan with Amelia’s father’s watch. Amelia breaks down, telling Addison that it is her own story to tell, not Addison’s, going so far as to threaten to kill her if she tells it again. She leaves with Ryan, after telling a tortured Sheldon that she’ll never love him back. Lennie says they have to walk away from Amelia until she hits bottom and wants help. They’re incredulous that this isn’t bottom, so Lennie explains that 15 years, 3 months, and 4 days ago she nodded off on heroin while at the park with her five year old son. When she awoke, he was gone and never found again.
Over the hour, we saw flashbacks back to the night Amelia’s father was shot and killed in front of her and Derek. He was working in his store, when two gunmen came in, took the money, and demanded his watch, an anniversary gift from his wife. When he didn’t hand it over, they shot him, with his two horrified children nearby. We’ve heard the story before on Grey’s anatomy, but this was the first time we saw the memory, which clearly has defined Amelia. She relates the story to Ryan, who tells her that he loves her. The two talk about starting a family and agree to get clean… after they shoot up one last time. We’ve seen enough made-for-TV movies to know how this ends. The next morning Amelia awakens and finds Ryan dead of an overdose lying next to her. As the police come to take the body, a near catatonic Amelia asks them to call Addison, saying she’s ready to go to rehab.
So… that was a pretty powerful hour! We’ve seen the angry intervention before, notably with Bailey Sallinger on Party of Five and Dr. John Carter on E/R. I’d easily put this episode up there with those two fine hours of television. I’m sure a lot of people will be angry at Amelia’s scathing attacks, but I think the acting by Caterina Scorsone was amazing. I’ve often thought Amelia was dispensable among this ensemble, but her relationship with Addison came across as so strong and familial this hour that it really cemented her place. What did you think?
The Breaking Point
This episode, with the exception of the visits to Amelia in rehab, was far more standard of an episode. But that doesn’t mean it didn’t cover a lot of ground. They broke the episode out by days, but I think I’m going to go with the more standard breakout by character storyline.
Addison: Addison’s first IVF treatment didn’t take. She’s not sure if she wants to try again, but Violet steps in as her friend/side-kick and offers to help her through it (more on Violet later). Sam feels displaced, so Addison drags him to couples counseling. They have the same argument over him wanting her, but not a child, so Sam leaves the session. During the next round of hormones, Addison collapses from an abdomen full of fluid, a side effect of the treatment. Sam eventually tells her he doesn’t want her to go through another round of treatment, but she already had the implantation that morning. At the end of the hour, she takes a pregnancy test and we’re left hanging on whether or not she’s pregnant.
Coop: Coop has the patient of the week, a young boy named Toby who lives in foster care and is suffering from severe Lupus. Toby needs a lot of treatments, but has no real support system, as he lives in a group home with forty other kids. When Coop misses Mason’s first school play (James and The Giant Peach) because he’s at the hospital with Toby, Mason is pretty upset. Coop explains to him that sometimes the really sick kids need him more than Mason because they may not have anyone else. Mason, who’s turning out to be more mature than many of our doctors, comes to the hospital and introduces a recovering Toby to Pokémon.
Violet/Pete: Violet spends the hour obsessing over Addison’s IVF treatments, admittedly to distract herself from the darkness of her marriage. Pete spends the hour complaining about Violet to Sam, admittedly to distract himself from the darkness of his marriage. The two are barely speaking, coming together only for Lucas. Pete admits to Sam that he can’t leave. Violet is waiting for Pete’s heart attack grief to bring them closer. Violet eventually has an epiphany that Pete is staying out of obligation, like he did with his first wife. She gives him an out, offering to leave him if it’s what he wants. He quietly agrees. Violet moves to a hotel, but knows they still have to figure out how to co-parent. And viewers can rejoice and hope that these two miserable characters will be more interesting to watch apart.
Amelia: Amelia is in for the long haul, with a 50-day rehab program. She checks in, still in a fog from Ryan’s death and the drugs. During detox, she befriends Hailey by having her wits about her to know that neither of them has bugs crawling over their itchy skin, it’s just a neuro reflex. Initially, she refuses visitors and preaches to the other patients about sobriety. When she finally relents to see Sheldon, she admits to not being ready to make amends yet. Hailey calls her on not sharing; telling her it’s not her fault that Ryan died. After initial defenses wear down, Amelia breaks down sobbing and seems to release the anguish inside. Haley checks out of rehab at day 21, but returns a mere twenty days later. It affects Amelia, who finally reaches out to the other doctors (except Jake) for a family therapy session. She knows they may not forgive her, but she’s sorry and knows she needs to forgive herself in order to live. I’ll admit that I was bummed not to see Derek (her brother) or Tyne Daly (Tim Daly/Pete’s real life sister who played Mama Shepard) show up for a therapy session. A crossover was definitely warranted. Amelia checks out after day 50, joins the gang for Thanksgiving, but we know there will be more to this story as she tries to re-acclimate to real life.
So that was everything for the two hours. Did you enjoy the music of Mary J. Blige that exclusively scored the two hours? I liked the closing song, “The Living Proof”, the most. I’m still completely over #AddiSam. They want each other, and that seems to be the only thing binding them together at this point. I’m calling repetitive and boring… and repetitive! It remains to be seen what Violet and Pete will bring to the table when they’re not being insufferable together. And, of course, do you think Addison is pregnant?
Well, you’ve got My TwoCents (and then some). I’m not sure if there will be another episode before January, so be sure to share all your thoughts, comments, and feedback below!

I’ve never thought that Amelia was a dispensable character. From the first time she came on, they have emphasized the fact that her and Addison are like sisters, more than sisters for that matter. Also, it seems as though Amelia doesn’t really have anyone to turn to besides Addison, so I never thought that she would be leaving.
I agree with you about the repetitiveness of Addison and Sam’s relationship. I’m quite tired of it. I felt the same way about Pete and Violet, it seemed to go on and on with them hating each other constantly. It got quite tiresome, the storyline between the two seems quite dull, imo. So, maybe Violet leaving will make it a bit more interesting. I’m really starting to enjoy Cooper and Charlotte, which I never thought I would. I never thought that they would have the strongest relationship but I’ve been proved wrong. Also, it’s nice to see the motherly side of Charlotte coming out, it adds more depth to her character.
That was Jake’s wife at the graveyard scene by the way. I’m pretty sure she was talked about once before when he was first introduced into the show, but only very briefly.
I found the watch to be quite ironic and sad. Not only does it now symbolize her father’s death but it also symbolizes Ryan’s. I thought that it was interesting how the watch was given from her mother to her father and from her to Ryan. Both of which times the people died. I assume there is some reason that they made it a watch, I assume it symbolizes something, but I’m not quite sure what yet.
Going into the show, I didn’t know how much I would like this episode/ episodes. But, quite surprisingly, I really enjoyed it. They did a great job with the writing, and you could feel the power from the acting. This might have even been my favorite Private Practice episode thus far.
Ohh!! I almost forgot about Addison. I assume that she is pregnant because of her facial expression. It looked like she was happy and I don’t think that she would be happy if she wasn’t pregnant even though Sam doesn’t want her to be. She’s shown that that’s what she wants numerous times.
Sorry for the long response btw haha! But, I got all of my thoughts out!
I think the relationship between Amelia and Addison was always supposed to be there, but until tonight, their interactions had been so limited, for so long, that I didn’t view them as having a sisterly bond like was spoken of… From the way Derek’s sisters and mother showed up on Grey’s, I am truly surprised we didn’t get a Shepard family member in either hour.
I didn’t think of the symbolism of the watch and death… Great point!
I think that the watch stands for life and how our “clock of life” is ticking already…might seem a bit depressed the way I phrased it, but I hope you get what I mean (:
I also thought that like the watch ( that is still ticking on Ryan’s and her father’s dead wrists) Amelia lives on.
And I agree it’s horrible that two people died NEXT to her wearing the watch.
Anyway, really great acting on Caterina Scorsone’s part!
I didn’t once think that she wasn’t spot on with everything from her voice to the expression in her eyes and her posture!
She OWNED this episode!
And I love the Addison-Amelia relationship, hope it gets more screentime from now on.
As to Addison. I think she’s pregnant, she had that kind of hinted smile on her face (;
I hope they won’t make us wait until January for the next episode, but I think they might leave us hanging on this particularly evil cliffhanger.
Anyway, I’m getting ready for a rewatch ;D
Great review, only Tyne Daly is Tim Day’s sister, not his mother
His mother is Hope Newell.
Thanks! See what happens when I try and write past midnight, lol! I’ve corrected the post.
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Don’t feel bad. I thought she was his mother for years.
Caterina was so amazing I had to go find her name and credentials to see how I’ve missed out on her acting until PP. The last few weeks she has been amazing but these two hours sold me on her skills. You pretty much covered it all.
Debi Ryan (Hailey) was great in her little guest spot. Nice change of pace from the new(est) Disney princess.
I cannot STAND AddiSam. They are staying together for what, the sex? The amazing long talks? The fundamental point of their relationship is not there, so why are they bothering staying together? Even if she’s not pregnant, she wants to be a mother but he does NOT want to be a father. He did not support her. Why should she stay? I hate this story and I’ve said from the beginning of it..when Pete went back to Violet that I would love to see Violet and Pete get divorced and see him go back with Addison. They seemed happy together and she’d get to be a mom! Violet could care less about her son (or anyone besides herself, we know that!).
Amelia’s part… well…
I’ve been there. Every step of the way. I’ve been through hell and back. Done a few things I’m not proud of, said a lot of things I want to take back but I can’t. Hurt my family because of my stupid adiction…
I’m 28 now…
Exactly 10 years ago I was this awfull person… and I lost my first (and last) girlfriend for oxy (and heroine and marijuana). She died, 10 years ago. That’s bottom, definitely is.
When I saw this episode, it was just my past slapping me in the face.
I literally was Amelia, and when I saw her acting… wow… amazing. I loved her acting… even the bugs part was so real. (Believe me, it’s not like bugs, it feels like spiders or snakes, or that’s what I felt anyway…)
I would’ve wanted Derek to be there and kick her ass, really… (my brother did that in one of the meetings in rehab)
But I guess I don’t give up my hopes to see him soon to check on his little sister… I don’t know why, I’m just wishing, you know?
It was epic… this episode. And I’m so thankfull I’m finally me again. And I’m so thankfull that Caterina Scorsone played that part. I think nobody would’ve done a better job than her. I felt like I was Amelia… because 10 years ago, I was.
I have to say this, though… the “one day at a time” sign… yeah, it’s like that… I still live one day at a time, imagine that… But I’m greatful, you know? I LIVE. I’M ALIVE. GOD WANTED ME TO LIVE. So I’m living, laughing, enjoying EVERYTHING.
So… Greetings to all… from Argentina. My name is María, I live in Buenos Aires.
Oh, and sorry for the long repply and my not so good English. =)
Thank you so much for sharing. It’s always powerful when an episode of television can have such a moving impact. I’m glad you’re here to share it.
My sister-in-law asked me today if I would watch this episode and give her my feedback on it because I am a recovering addict. She wanted to see how ‘real’ they got it in my opinion. I am still fresh in recovery, just 6 months, but I will say this much. I started crying after the first minute because in just that minute I saw me on that screen. Same type of personality high and not high, and the shit she said to Addison, things to that degree and worse have most definitely come from my mouth to my sisters, brothers, friends, coworkers, etc. My aunt said to me a week ago that she always knew I was high because I was extra happy, bubbily, smiling and laughing and my normal personality is just very low-key, but when I was high, I overcompensated to help pretend that nothing was wrong when in fact it made it more than obvious. The scene where Amelia and Hailey were in detox with the whole bug thing, for me, was incredibly accurate, except that I do agree with the other post that, for me, it was more like spiders and whatnot. The whole restless leg syndrome effect of withdrawal, while they didn’t mention it (i don’t think), the way they were going trying to get comfortable, reminded me of that, which in my opinion was the worst part. That was always one of the first things I would feel besides a headache and nausea.
I was not expecting this episode to be good just because it is a drama television show, but it was way more accurate than I thought, and I hope it helped educate people about addiction. The argument between Sam and Jake was honestly one of the most important parts of the episode to me because it is a very valid argument in the medical field, in general, even today. I had a counselor a while ago who, not an addict, truly does not believe it’s a disease. Being a recovering addict myself, I can truly see both sides to it, but in the end, if it wasn’t a disease, how are there so many people in the world going through this their entire lives that just can’t quit, or are chronic relapsers, etc. That’s my opinion though.
This episode in the end was a very good reminder to me as an addict why I would never want to go through that again, and God willing I will not, and I do not because I have a choice today. The grips of addiction really do take that sense and practicality of choice away. You mentally and physically really do not seem to have a choice. Beautiful episode, beautiful acting and just a wonderful message.
Wow. I don’t think anything I could say would do justice to what you said. Thank you so much for sharing. I’m glad you got the help you needed <3